Fear of Weight Gain

If you’re a dancer who follows me on Instagram, then you’re likely toying with the idea of demolishing your food restrictions. You’re sick of that cycle: the restrictive mindset that leads you out of control around food. But despite this, there’s one major thing holding you back from taking the plunge into intuitive eating: you’re really, really, REALLY scared that you’ll gain weight.

And with auditions and placement exams lurking, the idea of weight gain is not something you’re interested in. Am I right?

I was there once: convinced that gaining pounds on the scale would never allow me to be a professional dancer. What I didn’t realize at the time was that letting go of this fear was my ticket to a fulfilling dance career. Trying to maintain a lifestyle with food rules meant I was distracted mentally and tired physically. My worries over my weight did not enable me to dance to my fullest potential.

Dancers Need To Stop Fearing Weight Gain

Here’s the thing: an artistic director with a weight chart cannot dictate your ideal body weight. And though many dancers try to fight it, genetics definitely play a role. It’s called your set-point weight. A set-point weight is where your body wants to be in order to function optimally. Many factors impact your body’s set-point, including genetics, metabolism, daily energy balance (intake/expenditure), and even a history of dieting.

Yup- you read that right. Dieting can cause your set point weight to change over time, but this change is often seen as an increase in weight. When we diet, our body fights to maintain homeostasis by lowering our metabolism. As the body enters “starvation mode,” it attempts to “hold on” to as much energy as possible since it doesn’t necessarily know when it’ll have access to food in the future. This is why dancers need to stop dieting ASAP and instead, build a nourishing lifestyle without food rules.

But what’s my set point weight?

If you’re still growing (and younger than 20 years) it’s likely that you haven’t yet reached your set point weight. And while there is some research showing how we can lower our set-point weight, realize this is likely not possible for dancers striving for unrealistic weight goals. If you’re confused about whether or not you’re at your set-point weight, then ask yourself: can I maintain my current weight without obsessively counting calories and limiting my food intake? Dancers can read more about defining a healthy body weight here.

Now, despite these facts, many dancers still feel limited in their ability to live without food restrictions. This is because many dancers fear that a non-diet approach could say, result in a body type that is seen as “unacceptable” for a dancer. And I understand that it’s easier for me to write about this topic as a dancer and dietitian with thin privilege.

But before you say “no way” to a non-restrictive lifestyle, I encourage you to hear me out: for reasons that I explained earlier, diets don’t work for dancers. As performing athletes, you need full mental- and physical- freedom to perform at your best. Obsessing about your body and limiting your diet will not allow for that freedom. So to start building a sustainable lifestyle, let’s demolish your fear of weight gain using the same steps I use with clients.

How To Stop Fearing Weight Gain- Tips for Dancers

Step 1: Understand Your Fear

Before we can unravel a fear, we need to identify its roots. When it comes to weight gain, we often fear how it will impact our dancing:

• Will we look “out-of-shape?”
• Will it be difficult to partner?
• Will we fit into our costumes?

From a large-scale perspective, fears of gaining weight often stem from cultural weight stigma and social assumptions that higher weights mean we’re:

• Following unhealthy eating habits
• Less attractive/less beautiful
• Less successful
• Unworthy of the social standard
• Unhappy

Given the weight (pun intended) of body ideals in both the dance industry and regular society, it is completely valid to have a fear of gaining weight. This double-whammy makes it nearly impossible for a dancer to NOT fear weight gain.

But I need you to know that this fear is holding you back. Remember: scale weights do not account for true body composition. From strong bones to muscles, scale weights are highly inaccurate for dancers and athletes. Additionally, scale weights have zero bearings on your artistry.

Step 2: Reassess Your Values

Now that you’ve identified WHY you’re scared, it’s time to build new connections with your thought processes. Your brain is currently running with one thought: if I gain weight, I will be less successful because I will not have the “ballet body.” First, let’s assess what would happen if you attempted to “control” your weight (using tactics like dieting and exhaustive exercise routines):

• You’re likely to feel obsessed with numbers.
• You’ll probably start calorie counting
• …and track your weights…obsessively.
• You’ll likely begin measuring your daily mood off that number.

These experiences can consume your mental and emotional well-being. Instead, can you envision a life free from food and body obsession? What would happen to your mental space? Would it feel freer? Might you have more energy to devote to additional hobbies or say your artistry in class? Here are some additional questions to consider (adapted from fellow anti-dietitian Christy Harrison):

• What are your greatest values in life?
• What do you lose when you’re obsessing over calories and weight?
• What do you gain from that obsession—in other words, what needs does it meet?
• How might you get those needs met in other, more positive ways?
• How do you really want to spend your limited time on this planet?

Step 3: Rewire Your Thoughts

Utilizing practical affirmations is your first step to building new thoughts. My favorites are:

1. My body deserves to be taken care of with nourishing meals.
2. I am a good example to other dancers about how to love their bodies.
3. I am learning how to love my body.
4. I love delicious food and there is no shame in that.
5. I want to treat my body with love and respect.

Once you’ve accumulated your favorites, it’s time to proactively set reminders. Similar to dancing, repetition is how your brain will re-learn and streamline a more helpful thought process. Forcing yourself to see these reminders (like putting them as alerts on your phone) daily is a great exercise.

Step 4: Shift Your Behaviors

Now let’s translate your new thoughts into new behaviors. Shift your goals away from body weight and on to your daily meal plan. Make choices rather than rules and utilize the principles of gentle nutrition to build a nourishing menu. Here is a list of articles to start with:

1. First, make sure your metabolism is functioning optimally (read more here).
2. Next, differentiate between food preferences and food rules.
3. Last, apply nutrition information in a non-obsessive way.

If you are scared of gaining weight, then you’re inhibiting yourself from diving into these sustainable habits. I’m really excited for you to begin this journey. I know how tough it is to drop a fear that our society and industry obsess over. But at the end of the day, your fear is more likely to lead you to burnout, not to a successful career.